Regardless of the size, shape, or function of the dildo, one of the most crucial techniques to enhance comfort when inserting a dildo is to apply personal lubricant. For instructions on how to use lubricant, please check the link to view my other publications about using lubricant on sex toys.
(I must add a note regarding cleaning and hygiene. Cleaning the dildo is of great importance. After sexual activity, refer to the cleaning techniques in the guide to ensure that sex is always safe.)
Thoroughly lubricate the head of the dildo. This step is essential as it helps to reduce friction and ease the entry process, minimizing any potential discomfort or pain. Use a sufficient amount of lubricant to ensure a smooth surface. You can apply the lubricant in a circular motion, covering the entire head evenly.
By rotating the hand, spread the lubricant around the upper part of the shaft. This action helps to distribute the lubricant evenly along the length of the shaft that will come into contact with the body. It allows for a more seamless insertion and reduces the likelihood of the shaft sticking or causing discomfort due to uneven lubrication. Rotate the hand gently and steadily to ensure a smooth and even coating.
Apply lubricant on the fingers and around the vaginal opening. This additional lubrication around the entrance further enhances the ease of insertion. Gently massage the lubricant around the opening, ensuring that the area is well-coated. This helps to create a more comfortable and slippery surface for the initial contact with the dildo.
Lubricate the inner and outer labia. Spreading the lubricant on the labia not only increases comfort during insertion but also helps to reduce any potential friction or tugging on the sensitive tissues. Use a light touch to apply the lubricant, ensuring that both the inner and outer labia are covered evenly. This added lubrication can enhance the overall sexual experience and make the insertion process more pleasurable.
Use the index and middle fingers to spread the labia apart. This action helps to open up the vaginal entrance, making it easier to insert the dildo. Do this gently and carefully, taking care not to cause any discomfort or pain. Maintaining a steady and gentle grip on the labia can also provide better control during the insertion process.
Slowly push and pull the shaft in and out to evenly distribute the moisture. This gentle movement helps to further spread the lubricant and also allows the body to adjust gradually to the presence of the dildo. Start with slow, shallow movements and gradually increase the depth and speed as comfort allows. This way, the body can better acclimate to the sensation, reducing the risk of discomfort or injury.
Alternatively, twisting the shaft with the hand can also help to push it in easily. This technique can provide a different kind of sensation and can be useful if you find that straight pushing is not as comfortable or effective. Twist the shaft gently in a clockwise or counterclockwise direction as you insert it, taking care to maintain a slow and controlled pace. This can help the dildo to enter more smoothly and can add an extra dimension to the sexual experience.
By rotating the hand, spread the lubricant around the upper part of the shaft. This action helps to distribute the lubricant evenly along the length of the shaft that will come into contact with the body. It allows for a more seamless insertion and reduces the likelihood of the shaft sticking or causing discomfort due to uneven lubrication. Rotate the hand gently and steadily to ensure a smooth and even coating.
Apply lubricant on the fingers and around the vaginal opening. This additional lubrication around the entrance further enhances the ease of insertion. Gently massage the lubricant around the opening, ensuring that the area is well-coated. This helps to create a more comfortable and slippery surface for the initial contact with the dildo.
Lubricate the inner and outer labia. Spreading the lubricant on the labia not only increases comfort during insertion but also helps to reduce any potential friction or tugging on the sensitive tissues. Use a light touch to apply the lubricant, ensuring that both the inner and outer labia are covered evenly. This added lubrication can enhance the overall sexual experience and make the insertion process more pleasurable.
Use the index and middle fingers to spread the labia apart. This action helps to open up the vaginal entrance, making it easier to insert the dildo. Do this gently and carefully, taking care not to cause any discomfort or pain. Maintaining a steady and gentle grip on the labia can also provide better control during the insertion process.
Slowly push and pull the shaft in and out to evenly distribute the moisture. This gentle movement helps to further spread the lubricant and also allows the body to adjust gradually to the presence of the dildo. Start with slow, shallow movements and gradually increase the depth and speed as comfort allows. This way, the body can better acclimate to the sensation, reducing the risk of discomfort or injury.
Alternatively, twisting the shaft with the hand can also help to push it in easily. This technique can provide a different kind of sensation and can be useful if you find that straight pushing is not as comfortable or effective. Twist the shaft gently in a clockwise or counterclockwise direction as you insert it, taking care to maintain a slow and controlled pace. This can help the dildo to enter more smoothly and can add an extra dimension to the sexual experience.