1. Find the Right Dildo
There are numerous different types of dildos available. Your primary task is to identify one that suits you. Consider aspects such as length, thickness, and even its material. If you experience pain when your partner penetrates deeply, then you should opt for a shorter size. You can even decide to purchase several and experiment to determine which one suits you best. Regarding the material, you can choose from silicone, rubber, latex, jelly, glass, metal, leather, plastic, or even Cyberskin.
2. Choose a Curved One
You also need to consider whether you want a realistic one or one that doesn’t resemble a penis at all. The more unconventional ones are usually curved, with the unique function of directly stimulating your G-spot. If you truly desire to learn how to achieve a powerful orgasm, choosing a curved one would be optimal. The curvature is designed to stimulate your G-spot when inserted. So, if your aim is to reach orgasm, a curved dildo can become your best ally.
3. Relax and Ensure Privacy
Using a fake penis requires relaxation. You need ample alone time to unwind and feel comfortable. Learning how to use a fake penis correctly takes time. You may require several hours to truly experience the full effect. Ensure that you won’t be interrupted. If you know that there are others at home who might intrude at any moment, it won’t be effective. The best time is when you are completely alone for a few hours.
4. Set the Appropriate Atmosphere
When you are ready to masturbate, it is essential to set the atmosphere. You also need some personal foreplay. Preparing yourself and having the right mindset to relax and enjoy can assist you in reaching orgasm more quickly. When in the right mood, you will be able to discover what suits you best. So, dim the lights, play some soothing music, and then commence.
5. Position Yourself with a Pillow
Before attempting any other posture, lie on your back and place a pillow under your buttocks. This will tilt your pelvis upwards, making it easier to stimulate your G-spot. This is the ideal starting position because, as mentioned earlier, it allows for immediate stimulation of the G-spot and is also very straightforward for the first time.
6. Use Lubricant
Your fake penis does not have a lubrication function, and it will be more convenient when it is fully coated with lubricant and ready for use. You should find a lubricant that you know works well. Ensure it is an easy-to-clean type, as you need to clean it after using the toy.
7. Insert and Begin the Experiment
Now that you’re prepared, slide it in and start. The key lies in starting slowly. Don’t simply forcefully insert and then pull in at a frantic speed. You need to warm up first. So, start slowly, and when you begin to find something that makes you feel good, then increase the speed. This will ensure that you stimulate the G-spot correctly.
8. Try Deep Actions
Now that you have warmed up and are ready to enjoy more pleasure, attempt inserting the dildo deeper. If you are someone who enjoys deep penetration, this would be perfect for you. When it is in deep areas, it also moves your pelvis. This will help the fake penis reach all areas that are typically inaccessible.
9. Mix with Shallow Movements
You should also try some shallow, rapid movements. Some women’s G-spots are located lower than others and don’t truly require deep penetration. This may actually be the reason why you are unable to reach orgasm, if that is your issue. This can help you determine if you really need deep penetration or if you just need some shallow bursts. Shake the dildo at this shallow depth to see if there is a depth that makes you feel particularly good.
10. Experiment with Different Positions and Locations
Now that you have grasped the basic knowledge, you are free to try new positions. Some people report that the doggy style position is the best. You can also try different places. If you have a fake penis with a suction cup at the bottom, you can try some standing positions in your shower. Change positions and keep experimenting until you find the most suitable one for you.
11. Shake It at an Angle
Try moving the dildo back and forth at an angle so that the tip of the dildo exerts a significant amount of pressure on the bottom of your vagina. This area is filled with nerve endings, so it will definitely feel good. If you have a curved fake penis, you may find that this angle makes you feel great. But how you adjust the angle of the dildo will give you a different sensation.
12. Explore G-spot and Anal Play
If you always find it difficult to locate your G-spot during normal sexual activity or masturbation with your fingers, then you will find it much easier to use a dildo. Place the dildo close to the top of your vagina. As we said, dildos are not just for the vagina. If you have never tried anal sex before, it is best to do so when you are alone and relaxed. Ensure to apply sufficient lubricant to your dildo and start slowly. Try to see what feels good for you. Some people do not enjoy anal sex, while others find it very satisfying. Understand which situation applies to you.