If you’re wondering how to use a thrusting dildo that doesn’t have the additional function of a clitoral stimulation vibrator, the steps are essentially the same, except that you’ll omit the parts related to the stimulator. As mentioned earlier, the only difference between a dildo and a vibrator in this context is that the dildo lacks the clitoral stimulation attachment.
However, let’s assume that you’ve purchased a butterfly or rabbit thrusting vibrator, and we want to provide you with some tips to maximize the sensations when using it. Here are the steps to make it a more pleasurable experience:
Battery Insertion and Preparation
When inserting the batteries, it is of utmost importance to pay close attention to the polarity direction. Thrusting vibrators typically use AA batteries. Make sure to insert the batteries correctly to ensure the proper functioning of the device. This small yet crucial step can prevent any potential issues with the device not turning on or functioning erratically. If you have a USB rechargeable vibrator instead, simply insert the USB cable into your computer. It’s convenient and environmentally friendly in the long run as you don’t have to constantly replace batteries. While charging, make sure to follow the manufacturer’s instructions regarding charging time and safety precautions to ensure the longevity of the device and your own safety.
Lubrication
Lubricate the head and a few inches down the shaft with a water-based personal lubricant. Don’t worry; all the best thrusters are waterproof, so you can use as much lubricant as you need. The lubricant serves several important purposes. It not only makes the insertion process much smoother and more comfortable, reducing any potential friction or discomfort, but it also enhances the overall sensations during use. The smooth glide of the dildo within the vagina is made possible by the lubricant, allowing for more natural and enjoyable movements. You can choose from a variety of water-based lubricants available in the market, some of which may have additional features such as being long-lasting or providing a slightly warming or cooling sensation for an even more enhanced experience.
Insertion
Gently insert the shaft into the vagina. Take your time and go at a pace that is comfortable for you. You can start with slow, gentle movements to allow your body to adjust to the presence of the dildo. The shape and design of the shaft may vary depending on the specific type of thrusting vibrator you have. Some shafts may be slightly curved to better target certain pleasure points within the vagina, while others may have a more traditional straight shape. Experiment with different angles and depths of insertion to find what feels most pleasurable for you. Listen to your body’s signals and adjust accordingly to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience.
Positioning the Clitoral Stimulator
Place the clitoral stimulator above the clitoris. You have a few options here. You can separate the labia and press the stimulator directly onto the clitoris for a more intense stimulation. Alternatively, you can place the stimulator on the clitoral hood for a lighter, more subtle stimulation. The clitoral stimulator is designed to provide additional pleasure and enhance the overall sexual experience. Its position and pressure can significantly affect the sensations you experience. You may need to adjust its placement slightly to find the perfect spot that gives you the most pleasure. This can vary from person to person, so don’t be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you.
Starting the Motor and Adjusting
First, start the thrusting dildo motor. Depending on the depth to which the penis is inserted into the vagina, you can adjust the depth of the thrusting to enjoy the movement in the right position. Some women prefer a shallower movement, while others enjoy a deeper one. Try both ways to see which you like the most! The ability to adjust the thrusting depth allows you to customize the experience according to your personal preferences and the specific sensations you’re seeking. You can start with a more gentle thrusting motion and gradually increase the intensity as you become more aroused. Pay attention to how your body responds and make adjustments as needed to ensure maximum pleasure.
Activating the Clitoral Stimulator and Fine – Tuning
Activate the clitoral stimulator and reposition it as needed to adjust the depth of the up – and – down movement. The combination of the thrusting action and the clitoral stimulation can create a powerful and intense sexual experience. You can adjust the intensity of the clitoral stimulator separately from the thrusting motor. Some vibrators may have multiple settings for the clitoral stimulator, such as different vibration patterns or intensities. Experiment with these settings to find the perfect combination that brings you to the height of pleasure. You may find that a particular combination of thrusting depth and clitoral stimulation intensity is especially pleasurable for you, and you can use this knowledge to enhance your future sexual experiences with the thrusting vibrator.
Relax and Enjoy
Finally, lie back and enjoy the experience! You are free to experiment with different settings and positions. You can try different angles of the dildo, adjust the speed and intensity of the thrusting and vibration, and even change your body position to find new and exciting sensations. Maybe you’ll discover that a certain position or setting gives you an even more intense orgasm. Don’t be afraid to explore and have fun with the various features of the thrusting vibrator. Remember, sexual pleasure is a personal and individual experience, and it’s all about finding what makes you feel good and satisfied. So, take your time, relax, and let the pleasure unfold.