How Women Can Achieve Pleasure with a Dildo

Personal preference is always of utmost importance – the real way to enjoy a dildo is to do what you feel is best!

If you are using a dildo for the first time and don’t know what it feels like, it is always wise to start slowly. The feel of a rubber or silicone surface may be different from that of a human lover. Glass is hard, smooth, and highly erotic, but it’s completely different from the feeling of making love with a man.

The following points may help you experience a strong and satisfying orgasm while enjoying your dildo toy.

Move the toy in and out smoothly and sensually in a rhythmic manner. Imagine an erotic and passionate sexual encounter, starting slowly and gradually increasing as your body’s sexual response intensifies. As you feel more excited, increase the thrusting motions. Visualize a vivid and alluring sexual scenario in your mind, perhaps a steamy encounter with a desired partner. Let this fantasy guide your movements, syncing the pace of the dildo’s in and out motion with the building passion in your imagination. Begin with gentle, slow thrusts, mimicking the initial tender exploration in a sexual encounter. As your arousal grows, gradually pick up the pace, just as the heat of passion would rise in a real sexual experience. This combination of physical and mental stimulation can heighten the overall pleasure and lead to a more intense orgasmic experience.

While holding the base, “stir” the shaft in a wide circular motion. This prompts the inserted part to massage closely against the vaginal walls and enhance the sensations. If the dildo has a curve, point the tip towards your G-spot and wiggle it there. As you hold the base firmly, rotate your wrist in a smooth, circular motion, causing the shaft to swirl inside. This wide circular movement allows the dildo to touch different areas of the vaginal walls, stimulating a broader range of nerve endings. If the dildo has a curve, it can be angled to target the G-spot, that sensitive area known to bring intense pleasure. Gently wiggle the tip against the G-spot, applying just the right amount of pressure to build up a pleasurable sensation. Experiment with different angles and movements to find the most pleasurable spot and rhythm for your G-spot stimulation, adding an extra dimension to your sexual pleasure.

Pull it out completely and then push it back in. This repetitive action amplifies the sensation of the mushroom head, or rather, the feeling of having sex with a circumcised penis, surpassing what you might experience in real life. With each full withdrawal and reinsertion, you can feel the distinct sensation of the mushroom head as it passes through the vaginal opening and penetrates deeper. The contrast between the emptiness when it’s out and the fullness when it’s back in creates a heightened sense of pleasure. Focus on the feeling of the mushroom head rubbing against the sensitive tissues inside, enjoying the unique and intensified sensation it brings. This repetitive motion can build up anticipation and excitement, leading to a more powerful orgasmic response as you continue to engage in this pleasurable activity.

Most women need clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal insertion to reach orgasm. When using a dildo, rub the clitoris in a circular motion. As sexual desire increases, press harder on the clitoris while thrusting forcefully. Use the fingers of your free hand or, if the dildo has a suitable design, use a part of the dildo itself to create a circular rubbing motion around the clitoris. Start with light, gentle circles, gradually increasing the pressure and speed as your arousal builds. The combination of the deep penetration from the dildo and the focused clitoral stimulation can create a synergistic effect, driving you closer to orgasm. As you feel the pleasure intensifying, synchronize the force of your thrusts with the pressure on the clitoris, finding the perfect balance that maximizes your pleasure and leads you to a satisfying climax.