What to Note When Using an Ultra-Thick Silicone Dildo

Using an ultra-thick silicone dildo requires careful consideration and attention to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. Here are the key points to keep in mind.

Lubricant is an absolute must when using an ultra-thick dildo. Without proper lubrication, you are likely to experience pain or discomfort. The reason is that you may feel the stinging sensation of pulled pubic hair and/or there is a risk of tearing the labia. When using a large dildo, the increased surface area and thickness mean that there is more friction involved during insertion and movement. Adequate lubrication helps to reduce this friction, making the experience much more comfortable.

You have the option of using either water-based or silicone-based lubricant. Personally, as a sexpert, the recommendation is often to go for water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants have their drawbacks. They can stain your sheets, which can be a nuisance and make for a messier experience, especially when the wide shaft of the dildo comes into contact with your legs during insertion. Moreover, silicone-based lubricants do not evaporate, which can lead to a slippery and sometimes annoying situation as body parts become overly slick during dildo play. In contrast, water-based lubricants are more user-friendly. They are equally effective in reducing friction and, if they do start to evaporate, you can easily restore their viscosity by adding a bit of saliva or water. This makes them a convenient choice for a more seamless and enjoyable experience. However, it’s important to note that different people may have different preferences based on their skin sensitivity and personal experiences. Some individuals may find that silicone-based lubricants provide a longer-lasting smoothness that they prefer, especially for longer sessions. In such cases, it’s advisable to use a towel or a protective sheet to avoid staining and to be prepared for the potential mess. It’s also crucial to ensure that the lubricant you choose is compatible with the material of the dildo. Some silicone dildos may interact negatively with certain types of lubricants, so it’s always a good idea to check the manufacturer’s instructions or do a small patch test if you’re unsure.

Before insertion, it’s essential to thoroughly lubricate your labia. This means applying the lubricant all over the clitoris and even the perineum. The goal is to prevent any friction between your skin and the giant dildo. By doing this, you reduce the risk of irritation and discomfort during insertion. One hand can be used to gently spread the labia open while the other hand holds the dildo in position, ready for insertion. This is where having a partner can be helpful. They can offer assistance and support, as they have a better vantage point and can help ensure a more comfortable insertion. Their presence can provide an extra level of comfort and reassurance, especially for those who may be a bit nervous or unsure about using a large dildo.

Lubricating the head of the dildo and a few inches of the shaft is also crucial. Using both hands to rotate the dildo on the shaft (similar to the motion of masturbation) ensures that the lubricant is evenly distributed across the wide shaft. This even distribution helps to further reduce friction and allows for a smoother insertion. It’s important to take your time during this process and make sure that the dildo is adequately lubricated to minimize any potential discomfort or resistance during insertion. After use, always remember to clean and sanitize the dildo properly. Use warm water and either an antibacterial soap or a sex toy cleaning spray to remove any bacteria or residue. This not only helps to maintain the hygiene of the toy but also ensures its longevity and continued safety for future use.

Several customers have expressed interest in trying out large dildos but have found that they couldn’t fully accommodate them. It’s important to note that no two extra-large dildos are exactly the same. On our sex toy website, we provide the dimensions of each dildo size. Before ordering, it’s a good idea to take a tape measure and measure the actual width of the dildo you’re interested in. There is a significant difference between a 1.5-inch and a 2-inch wide dildo. If you’re a first-time user, it’s advisable to start with a 1.5 or 1.75-inch wide dildo. Save the 2 or 3-inch thick dildos for when you have more advanced experience. This gradual approach allows your body to adjust and become more accustomed to the size and sensation of larger dildos. It also reduces the risk of discomfort or potential injury. Additionally, when considering the size, think about your own comfort level and physical capabilities. Everyone’s body is different, and what may be comfortable for one person may not be the same for another. It’s important to listen to your body and not push yourself too hard too quickly. If you experience any pain or discomfort during use, stop immediately and reassess. You can also try different positions or angles to see if that makes a difference in your comfort level. Experimenting with smaller sizes first and gradually working your way up can help you discover what works best for you and ensure a more enjoyable and safe experience with ultra-thick silicone dildos.